I like to spend every New Year's Eve somewhere new. This year we chose Muskegon!
We went in two cars - Gage, his kids and Charlotte's fiancé Will, and Kris, our boys, and me. A solid 11 of us makes a party wherever you go!
We drove straight from home to Lake Michigan, because I love the lake in the winter, and Will had never been there. We set our GPS to Pere Marquette Park, just 110 miles from home.
Dear reader, it was a miserable. The wind was blowing so incredibly hard and it was bone-chillingly cold - 17 degrees. Evelyn and Jude didn't even get out of the car, and I didn't blame them. I had imagined (like so many times in the past), strolling along the water, enjoying a beautiful winter day. Instead, we walked to the water as the wind whipped sand into our eyes and teeth. We looked at the wild waves that looked like they would swallow you up. There was, not surprisingly since this is Michigan and we are outside no matter what, what looked like a father and son there, and I asked them to take a picture of us. I could tell he was reluctant to take off his glove to do it, but he did.
It was obvious we weren't going to be able to spend any time there, so we quick headed back to our cars. I mean, Will was only in a sweatshirt!
We had already decided we wanted to go to Unruly Brewing Company, because they had a whole Irish day planned. First, we watched The Mona Shore fiddlers, and after they left we were able to get a table for all of us together! You could order food from the cashier anytime, so some people had pizza and burgers. We then watched Irish dancers and then a full Irish band. There were also lots of people wearing kilts.
Gage commented, "They sound so Michigan!" as in their Michigan accent. When I didn't live here I would also notice this, but of course I don't any more. The woman announcing the dancers said at one point that the girl had "earned her sparkles," and that was delightful. Apparently you work up from plain costumes to fancy ones!
I loved all of it - they even had a live stream from Dublin on the TV, since they were going to celebrate New Year's Eve for them - 7:00 p.m. for us! We didn't stay there for that, though. At about 4:00 p.m., we left to go check into our houses.
Both of our houses were nice and affordable and owned by a man named Evan. Gage's house was closer to downtown and was incredible! It was old and had huge, tall windows and doorways, but he also decorated it in the style of old, including furniture and books, so it was really cool. We went over to his house, and Kris pulled out the microphones he had just given me for our (24th!) anniversary.
Then followed one of my best moments of 2025. We all sang karaoke! Cole and Ty started off, and let me tell you - if you know me, you know that I love singing and theatre and music and everything that goes along with it. The fact that I was spending New Year's Eve with my family that will happily sing just made my night. And my year. They sang a duet (This Love), Max and I sang a duet (Die with a Smile), and then Kris started a duet for us (More than Words), which we used to sing together. This was particularly meaningful since Kris had vocal cord surgery in 2025, and before that he couldn't sing for a long time, and the fact that he once again could is just so wonderful. My heart! Gage sang a song I love to hear him sing (Wondering Why), Max and Ian sang a duet (Hotel California), and then - Gage suggested Charlotte sing. Oh, what will she sing? He suggested At Last by Etta James. I wondered if she even knew that song. Then she started, and I couldn't help crying. She PERFORMED it. She had obviously sung it a million times and she had such a beautiful voice! I hadn't heard her sing a solo before, and I couldn't help but cry. Will took a video of her, and he was all heart eyes at her, and it was just a perfect, beautiful moment brought to you by karaoke. Thanks family!
We played some games including spoons and golf, and then we headed downtown to eat dinner. Gage's house was just a couple of blocks from downtown. We had no trouble getting into a place and finding two tables. We chose Carlisle's Restaurant, which is attached to a hockey rink. It was a happening place, and really good! A woman walked by with two LED balloons. I had only become aware of them earlier that day, because my friend Aimee was making them at her NYE celebration. I asked the woman if I could take a picture of it, and she said, "Here, you can have one!" I was delighted.
We ate there and walked back to the house, then watched a little of the coverage on TV, played some more games, and went downtown for the band and ball drop. It was still really, really cold. Like, I wore snowpants. They blocked off the whole downtown but oddly, it wasn't plowed, so you were standing on stamped-down snow. The band was good and we danced around and had a good time. Then they started talking, and there was a lot of swearing...I thought, were they billed as family-friendly? Then, the speakers just kept talking, introducing people on stage, thanking people, and we were like, "Uh, it's 11:59 p.m., shouldn't they start the countdown?" Happily, the person dropping the ball (literally not figuratively) started lowering the giant, color-changing ball, and we started the countdown. Midnight! We sang the new year in, then watched fireworks! We walked home to Gage's, collected our stuff, and drove to our own Airbnb.
The next morning, Gage and I planned to do a polar plunge into Lake Michigan. We did it first at Bald Head Island in 2008, and let me tell you it's easier to do it in NC than MI. This time, we were about five miles from the lake, and the logistics of getting there and getting back seemed cold and daunting. Gage suggested we just plunge into Motz Park, and I loved that idea. Turns out that was also frozen, so we ended up rolling in snow in our bathing suits, then jumping in my parents' hot tub.
A great end to a great year!
